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Nov. 9th, 2009 | 04:03 am

Do you think romantic chemistry is instant or evolving? Have you ever given someone a second (or third) chance and lived to regret it? Have you ever fallen in love with someone you didn't particularly like or desire at first?

If this were ask to me perhaps 10 years ago, I would answer differently, but seeing how it is today... my response is quite simple:

I believe it is evolving. Many people would argue that it is instant, but I feel that "instant" romance is more lust than romance. But that's only because I am at this age and not the age I was 10 years ago. 10 years ago I was all about romance. I believed in love at first sight and all of that. Now, I am not that much of a believer and much of that belief is due to the experiences that I have had in my past. I know that there are still some people who do believe in love at first sight and I admire them for that. But I personally know that when I see someone I haven't felt like, "OMG I'm in love!" I haven't felt that way in ages and not sure if I will ever feel that way again.

I did "give someone a chance" and I would not say, "regret" but I did learn from it. She was my ex. I gave her a chance and it just didn't work out. So, I had no choice but to let it go, glad I did. I don't like to think of regretting it because she had her moments and I learned that communication is very important key to a successful relationship. That was something that didn't work well with us. So, that sums up today's question. See you all tomorrow.

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