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Oct. 12th, 2009 | 03:19 pm

Do you keep tabs on ex-boyfriends and -girlfriends over social networking sites? Do you think it's emotionally healthy or dangerous? Amusing or painful?

No! And I would not want to either. I believe it would be unhealthy and dangerous for anyone to use social networks to keep tabs on someone who has ended their relationship with you. I would not want that person to be stalking me, honestly. There was a reason there was a break up, and people just need to learn to move on. There is no sense in continuing something that ended and if you desire to stalk them, then you have issues of not letting it go.

So... I wouldn't do it and I would not feel comfortable with someone stalking me. 'nuff said.

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porcelain ocean

From: porcelain_ocean
Date: Oct. 14th, 2009 05:05 am (UTC)

omg absolutely agree! I've dealt with people who can't let go before, they're frigging terrifying. Funny, I'm the type to make sure every trace of my ex's are gone the moment I break up with them. Damned if I want *anything* of theirs or that reminds me of them near me again lol.

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From: hisensei808
Date: Oct. 14th, 2009 05:42 am (UTC)

Yep, I agree, with the exception of my first. That relationship was just too beautiful to completely forget. I don't stalk her, but I keep pictures to remind me of how beautiful love can really be.

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